TDoV 2021

I didn’t write about Transgender Day of Visibility this year on the day it happened. I couldn’t. It was too difficult to process how I felt. There are bad things and good things about TDoV that I want to express. First the bad… I am angry that we need to have this day. I am…

Despair

At what point do I give up? Is it when the state I live in outlaws body autonomy for women? Is it when the country I live in values religious freedom over my rights to exist and be treated equally? Is it when I can no longer advance in my career because now I’m not…

What are they really afraid of?

What is it about being transgender that scares people so much? There are so many groups out there that hate and fear our very existence, as if we upset some cosmic balance and the universe will implode if we continue to exist. Most of the arguments against us follow along the same lines as historical…

Storm Preparation

I am not an alarmist. I do not have an exit/escape plan. I live in a relative safe location for a trans woman. All that began to change last week. All that might radically change next week. Last week, the President of the United States and his administration announced a plan to define transgender people…